8 Ways to KNOW if he's a GOOD GUY (and not a PLAYER!) Gourmandize Staff, 04/27/2016 Gourmandize shares Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Pin it Share on WhatsApp Share on Google+ 3/9 Previous Next He doesn't treat SEX like a GOAL Of course he's waiting for it... But he's not going to say whatever to get you into bed. He's going to take his time, first by holding your hand, then softly touching your arm, caressing your neck... It's up to you to escalate... if you want to.