Seven signs a girl REALLY wants to have sex with you

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You're chatting to a beautiful girl, it's going well and you know exactly where you want the night to end... but how can you be sure she's on board? Before you do the most important thing — ask her for consent —check for these 7 key signs that she is ready to rip your clothes off!

1. She's planning ahead

If you are on a date in the evening, she might ask what you are doing the next day, to see if she you are free to stay the night or not. If she wants to go back to your place, she might ask what your apartment is like, if you live alone or with family or friends, or even what your bedroom is like. She is visualizing how the night is going to go, and also working out the logistics of spending a crazy night in bed with you, which is exactly what she wants!

2. Her body is  betraying her intentions

Whether she means to or not, she is displaying signs of arousal. Key signs to look for include licking her lips, touching sensitive zones (like her neck, ears and collar), and orienting her body towards you, rather than away. If she is wearing a flattering outfit, she might be making sure you always have a great view, and avoiding doing things like crossing her arms, which can be a sign that she is not interested in getting closer. 

3. She keeps getting closer to you

Whether you are in a crowded place or have all the room in the world, she is never far away. She keep positioning herself close to you, "accidentally" bumping into you, or finding ways to touch you. It is very likely that she's entertaining the idea of taking you home and getting to know your body much, much better! 

4. The topic of sex keep coming up

Most women don't bring up the topic of sex with men unless they are interested in getting down and dirty in real life. Sex-themed talk could be as subtle as discussing the latest celebrity sex scandal, or as direct as discussing her own sexual past, but whatever it is, talking about it is a very strong sign that she has one thing on her brain= doing the deed!

5. She's asking about your dating history

In a similar vein, asking you about your dating history is a way for her to figure out what you might be like in bed,  how many girls you have slept with, how responsible you are with sex and sexual health, and to confirm that you are not already in a relationship. 

Subtly give her as much information you think will reassure her you are a trustworthy guy, but make sure you leave a few things to the imagination!

6. She invites you to over to her place

If at the end of a date or hang-out she asks you over to her house, even for something totally un-sexy like asking you to take a look at a broken light or lift a heavy object, it is a strong sign that she wants to get you in the sack.  She is inviting you into her private space, so respect that and don't assume this means you can dive straight in, but if you play your cards right you might get access to her very private space sooner than you thought! 

7. When you ask her, she says YES!

This is the most important sign of all- because it is never sexy to manipulate or persuade somebody into sleeping with you. No matter how many strong signs you have been receiving, never initiate sex unless you have clearly asked her for permission, and she's given you a clear "yes!". If she has displayed all of the previous signs, it is highly likely that she is ready to have sex with you, so go ahead and ask! Trust us, she'll appreciate it!