SEX: We reveal what guys WORRY about the most

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Considering the way they constantly talk about it, it's easy to think that guys have a totally uncomplicated relationship with sex... 

But we are here to confirm that it's not always the case! We asked the guys close to us to get honest, and they revealed the things they worry about in the bedroom the most... 

1.  At the top of the list, something that all men fear: not getting hard! This particular problem is made even worse by the fact that the more you think about it, the harder it is to get... hard.

2.  Another worry they have is being too relaxed... and farting during a blow job! Ok it's going to be hard not to think about that next time... 

4. Guys also worry about not giving their partner enough pleasure, or having fun together. So if he's doing it right, make sure he knows it!

5. It's not only us girls who can be shy about getting undressed... guys confess to being very nervous about revealing their bodies in bed. Whether it's a beer belly or acne scars, nobody is perfect.

6. The fear of being compared to previous lovers is another great source of anxiety among the guys. A line like "oh, interesting, my ex used to do that totally differently..." is not an encouraging thing to say to a guy!

7. Ok we didn't see this coming... but having smelly or gross feet is apparently a big concern for guys! We think the solution to this one is pretty simple... take better care of them guys!

8. Of course, this list wouldn't be complete without mentioning that almost all men are afraid of having a small penis... you can thank the pornography industry and it's absurd standards for that anxiety, guys. 

9. Yet they almost never worry about having  a penis that is too big! Which of course we ladies know is much more likely to cause pain and dissatisfaction for us! And again, we can thank the porn industry for creating the ridiculous idea that a regular women doesn't feel pain... or have a cervix. 

10. Coming (hee hee) in last place, premature ejaculation is one of the top sources of bedroom anxiety for men. Despite what we might think, sex that is over too quickly isn't something most men are proud of. 

There you have it! Men are as complex in the bedroom as we are. It's a wonder we ever have any sex at all!!