SEX: How to give a BLOWJOB with CLASS

Gourmandize Staff, 10/23/2016

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SEX: How to give a BLOWJOB with CLASS

Despite what the porn industry might have you believe, giving a blowjob doesn't mean you need to be naked, down on your knees, and trying to get his entire member down your throat at once.

It can be a sexy, powerful and classy move.

We show you how to take back the power and rock a BJ that would make Grace Kelly proud.

1. Set the mood

Music is an incredibly powerful atmospheric device... so why not make turn this moment of pleasure into a surround-sound experience for both of you? Slow beats, jazz, and soul set a seductive tone and can put you in a slow, teasing mood. The key here is feeling classy and sexy, not slutty, so chose music that makes you feel good. And as an extra bonus, if you get into the habit of playing the same music when getting down and dirty together, you can form a strong association between the music and sex, making it even easier to become aroused!

2. Demand his undivided attention

The best way to feel used while giving a blow job, is by letting him watch TV, play with his phone or do anything else at the same time. If you have given him the honor of a BJ, he damn well better be appreciating it! Order him to turn off all his devices, and even maintain eye contact to show him who is in charge.

3. Dress up to feel sexy

If giving a blow job makes you feel like a bit... well, slutty, then dressing up can help to overcome these feelings. Put on an outfit or item of clothing (or shoes) that make you feel grown-up, confident, independent and in charge. You'll be amazed at what this can do to your mood.

4. Get comfortable

Kneeling on a hard, uncomfortable floor or straining your neck at a weird angle is a good way to turn a blowjob into a real chore that you resent. Experiment with different positions like lying side-by side with your head at his groin, or you sitting in a chair and him standing in front of you can make all the difference.

5. maintain control

You are the one calling the shots here, so make sure he doesn't forget it. If you hate it when a guy presses on the back of your head or pulls your hair during oral sex (its easy to get carried away) then don't be shy to physically restrain him by tying his hands behind him or to a chair. You can relax knowing you aren't suddenly going to have the tables turned on you, and he'll love the sexy dominatrix vibe you'll give off!

What do you think? How do you feel sexy and in-charge during oral sex?

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