SEX: Have More Orgasms. You Know You Want To.

Gourmandize Staff, 09/28/2016

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SEX: Our advice for getting more ORGASMS!

We seek it, we expect it, we get impatient when we don't find it ... and sometimes that elusive orgasm totally leaves us in the lurch!

But how to be sure to reach the seventh heaven to EVERY time you try??

We investigate...

1. Get moving!

Look, playing a dead starfish in the bedroom isn't interesting for anybody- you or him. You don't need to set a new world record in Most Adventurous Sexual Position Changes in 5 Minutes, but be sure to mix it up a bit. Changing positions and experimenting is how you figure out exactly what works for you.

2. Know Thyself

Who knows your body and it's complexities better than you? If you want your lover to know exactly how to please you, teach him. To do that you need to spend the time getting to know yourself very well. Make a date to practice some self-love and you won't regret it.

3. Express yourself

No, we aren't talking about screaming like a gutted pig, or a porno actress... but make sure your lover knows when you are enjoying yourself and also when you are not.

4. Let it go, let it GO!

We know it isn't easy, but one way to bring the big O into the room is to leave your anxieties, complexes and baggage behind. Love handles, cellulite, hairy legs, stretch marks... these are all normal, human and part of who you are.

Take that huge hoodie off, get naked in front of the mirror and admire your fine self, flaws and all. If you can be comfortable with yourself, you'll be amazed at how wild you'll get in bed!

5. Find THE position

Once you've done your work: testing positions, exploring yourself, communicating and letting go in the bedroom, you'll probably realize that there is one key position that always gets you going! Whether it's missionary, doggy style, 69 or anything in between, you've got it in the bank, and an orgasm is yours for the taking every single time!