SEX: Tell Her THIS, And Keep Her Coming Back For More

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What you say just after sex is even more important than what you say before... if you want her back in your bed again, that is!!

NEWSFLASH: Women love communicating. For many women, verbal communication is the key to intimacy, so by choosing the right words, you can make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, turn her on and ensure that she'll be coming back again and again and again... 

 So, what are the best things to say just after you've done the deed? 

“Wow... That was... amazing” 

It's short and sweet, and is perfect when you've just finished and you're floating in that sweet, sweet post-coital haze, because it requires basically zero thought! Sounding a bit incoherent, and having trouble finding your words is also totally charming because it shows that you've been totally blown away by her!

“Can We just lie here forever?”

You might find this incredibly cheesy, but after a woman has had an orgasm (and we know she has, Don Juan) her body is flooded with hormones that make her crave trust, intimacy and safety. Reassuring her that you aren't immediately about to run out the door will make her much more likely to do the wild thing with you again. 

"Wow, your body is so sexy."

 Well, DUH! If you want a woman to sleep with you, flatter her! Telling her that you find her sexy and irresistible just after sex is a brilliant move, because she'll feel reassured that you're not just saying it to sleep with her (because you just did, right?). Women can also feel very vulnerable and even self-conscious during sex so reassuring her that you find her smoking hot will do wonders for you shared sex future. 

"I loved it when you..."

Once you've flattered her body, flatter her amazing sex skills. If you can make her feel like The Almighty Goddess of Sex, she will want to prove you right over and over again! 

WHAT NOT TO SAY

Now you know all the key lines to say to a woman after sex, what are a few of the pitfalls to avoid? Some advice columns may differ on this one, but we think that saying "Thank You" is a big no-no. Thanking her for having sex with you makes her feel like she's done you some kind of favor, and sex is a shared joy, not a service rendered. Secondly, even if it's true, never say "Whew! I needed that!!" 

What do YOU think? What are your best post-coital lines?? 

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